Hi! I'm Focal Femme.

I didn't start exploring fantasy fashion until my 40's. Throughout my teens, twenties and even 30's, I wouldn't leave the house wearing shorts or anything that showed my upper arms. I was ashamed of my body and I played it small.

Something changed when I did my first boudoir shoot. It unlocked something hidden deep within me. All of the sudden I went from super modest to posting images of myself on my Instagram wearing only lingerie! The change wasn't fueled by weight loss - it was fueled by seeing myself as sexy and worthy of taking up space for the first time in my life!

That's when I started collecting designer lingerie - and I started helping other women step outside their comfort zones in a search for their TRUE, most confident selves. I eventually started making my own latex costumes, getting bolder and bolder with each new persona I try on.

I'm so glad you're here!

Want to check out my favorite brands & wish list pieces? Bookmark my ShopMy page! I add finds it to it daily - and when I'm in the mood to treat myself - this is where I go.